Marriage

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Have you forgotten what it feels like to be in love? You’ll probably say no and you’re right. We can never forget some of the feelings but we don’t remember them all and this leaves us a little confused. We want to feel it all and we have a right to that but love always seems to get away. Some people never really experience it and that is so sad. That’s why we must give our love to each other. We need that emotional support.

It’s really such a fantastic way to live. No matter how long you’ve been with somebody, love can still be as sweet as it was, in that first moment. There are so many memories to be made.

If you've been married a long time and you've let your relationship slip into the ordinary, you may not be sure you feel this way right now but as time goes by, you will see that true love is all that matters between two people, no matter who you are or where you live.

It’s as if Love itself, has no physical barriers. However at times, that’s all we manage to see. Sometimes, we’re not brave enough to look any further. Look at Love again and think about a few things. Do this in an honest and loving way. It might make you feel better. Be willing to look at love, in all its glory and passion.

Are you sad and lonely? How long has it been since you have felt like you were someone special? We all want to feel like that and most of the time we can’t give that feeling to ourselves, so we search for love and then neglect it. If you feel like love has failed you, ask yourself…is there something more you could have done,in any of your situations? I mean to encourage you here, not critisize or discourage you, so please take it in the same way, I am saying it. Don’t let any of your personal or negative doubts discourage you. To live in love, is still the best way to live.

Have you ever asked yourself why so many people break up? You may have been married a long time, but it can happen to the best of us, if we're not careful. We have to appreciate love and the one, we're in love with. Do you want to be alone or with someone you love? Who do you love? And why? Do you need to renew your vows? Ask yourself this, even if you've been in the relationship for awhile. Once you actually know this, you’re half-way home and you’ll never have to wonder about it again.

We can talk about how to enjoy love but you have to do it and this depends on what you want and how much you’re willing to put into love. These are not casual comments but honest proposals for you to consider. Love can be very intense. Sometimes we think we can’t stand the intensity of it and so we back away from the fire of true and pure love, as if it were the fires of hell.

We can choose to love or hate. There will be a price to pay for whatever direction we choose, so we might as well choose to love. There you will find the most intense passion. Think about what I’m saying here and then look at your own circumstances. What do you want to feel? Decide this and then do it. Be confident in Whatever choice you make, since you have free will but choose wisely. And remember you may not be where you think you are emotionally and in the area of correct thinking, especially if your feelings have been hurt and you're still in pain. You certainly need to pray and meditate on this. God will lead you in the right direction, if you'll let Him. Remember the Holy Spirit is given to us, to help and guide us.

If you do decide, that you may have forgotten what it feels like to be in love, the Holy Spirit can help you to remember,if this is what you want. So listen to that Sweet Voice of Counsel, that has been given to us.

I would never say anything to discourage you but remember to think for yourself always and do everything that you have to do in love. Love may require personal sacrifices but it is worth it. Love can always get you through. It is practical to be in love and is the most fantastic way to live. I know that Love will keep you in its sweet purity and give you the happiness you both need and desire.

Written by Anita Thomas

Copyright 2004

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