Marriage

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What do you think about being in love? How do you feel? Can you see how beautiful, it really is? Do you want to feel that way all the time? Can you imagine a life…like that? Until you do…you’ll never have it. You have to want to feel this way before you can let yourself do it. Why is it important to you anyway? Is it your lover’s responsibility to keep you happy? What should you be doing then? Take some time and reflect and pray over this.

Being in love is what we all want to experience. I don’t care what you might say. If you’ll think about it, then you’ll know I’m right. Being in love can be a pain in the behind, too. We all know that, if we’ve ever been in love. So if you’re honest, you’ll admit you may have mixed feeling about it. Why shouldn’t you? There’s probally been some hurt before.

Why should you want to experience love again? Maybe because we all need to and fear, should not keep it from us. It is the greatest pleasure we can have, yet we deny it to ourselves all the time.

Men in particular, do this because it can seem, like it’s a weakness to feel anything. Christian men and women need to think about love in a spiritual way, however. This fear is a societal indoctrination that we allow ourselves to experience frequently.
Women do it too but in another way. Think about how you feel right now.

Being in love binds you together, in an invisible web of ecstasy and passion. If you’re not feeling this way then you’re not in love or your feelings are frozen, in a misguided emotion somewhere.

Being in love is very hard to define in any tangible terms but you can tell when you are, if you’ll listen to your soul. In a love such as this, you should be experiencing everything and be feeling extremely beautiful in essence. That’s just the way it feels. For a man or a woman it is the same. “Kiss me. Let me feel for even a moment, that intense state of being and I want to feel it with you.” This is what being in love is all about.

Both of you, have to feel this way. That’s what being soul-mates is…having that bit of loving wisdom...of ecstatic feeling that you both need each other eternally and that you are meant to be together. Sometimes we may feel that we can’t handle this and we pull away in fear. It happens to all of us, no matter who we are.

Think about being in love. Be honest about how you feel. It’s not a crime to be in love. It’s a natural way to live, the way we should be doing it. You either feel like this or you don’t. Being in love, how important is it to you? Living in this way can bring you to your knees but it can also show you the heights of Heaven. Pleasure is meant for us to enjoy. When you love, you are experiencing the most creative enrgy we have.


Written by Anita Thomas

Copyright 2004

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