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Godly Home, Not for strangers

by Bolaji O.Timothy
09/23/17
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Godly Home, Not for strangers

“ study to show yourself approved”

“you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free”

The working of marriage into a Godly home is not for strangers. Many of us really do not know our spouses as we ought to while we believe we do. This may not aid necessary help needed to  be given by our spouses.  the relationship that  exist between  couples willing  to achieve godly and peaceful home must not  in any way be similar or the same with that between two strangers. Anything that must be perfectly understood and appreciated must be studied. Marriage involves quite many processes much of which must be studied if the truth in them must be discovered.

 It is very difficult to accept, appreciate, harness  opportunities,  and benefits , help and project appropriately the man or woman called your  husband or wife  if we do not know them. This must be preceded by the willingness to want to know him her so that we can  handle each respectfully and appropriately.

 The understanding for basic characteristics and purposes of a material determine the handling, treatment and processes such material may be subjected to in order to unlock the potentials,  benefits and beauty  within It.

When  we attempt to study our spouses , all we should focus on is the search for the Truth about him or her! Unfortunately, a lot of thing happen at home or to our spouses and they present the false impression about their desire, interest, thoughts, ideas, purposes, look and hope about home or her. However, “the scripture says and you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free”  The truth will help our various responsibilities toward our spouse. The husband or wife both must be helped by this and they can strengthen each other in their relationship.

He who values deception will encourage pretence. The truth about your spouse is  necessary . A relationship between two stranger are  likely going to be filled will fears, doubts, deceptions, abuse, misunderstanding and wastage. Such atmosphere is not appropriate for godly home and raising godly children.  In bid to achieve this, we may need to seek the face of the maker of him or her, who  had compiled the manufacturing manual and  carefully and wonderfully built in some certain features to enable him or her fulfil  ultimate purpose.  Any alteration of these will  affect his or her happiness.

Every one of us have a self appraisal which may be true or not . This may have been affected by our background, experiences ( pleasant or not),   temperament, exposure, training, culture, traditions  and  belief system. This will together determine the texture of an individual. The texture of everyone is made up of his or her ideology and attitude. These affect virtually everything an individual do or the couple display in their homes.

The ideology and attitude may have been formed from successes and disappointment.  A lot of us try to leave a little about our parent, guardian or mentor in our homes unconsciously. If they are positive that may be good. if they are negative, it is unfortunate.