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Illiterate Fool, Seek Wisdom

by Bolaji O.Timothy
09/23/17
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Illiterate Fool, Seek Wisdom

 A smart (spiritual, physical, considerably educated and trustworthy) young man began to think about marriage when he deemed fit. However, he did not know much about marriage, women and the relationship involved as he thought he knew. His recent relationship generated some unpalatable ripples. This could not be managed due to many factors. He was not pleased emotionally, he was shattered in one of his thinking about everything. Someone handed him a piece of letter from anonymous, this reads “Illiterate fool, if you want to stop , stop!”
This statement was unkind to his situation and sincerity. A lot within him were framing defences. He wanted to fight back this unkind statement and severally reacted to it. But when wisdom took a better part of him, he realised he was purely uneducated in  the  venture called women and marriage. He was an illiterate as far as this matter is concerned and thereafter surrendered to wisdom for education
A larger percentage of young men and women approach this important relationship called marriage with less needed education about the subject. This lack or inadequate education soon begins to create problems in the new homes where continuing education is inevitable. Lack or inadequate education will not produce desired perfect home.
Many people often assumed that they have many male and female friends and this should afford them the understanding needed to handle their spouses peacefully and wisely at many predictable many unpredictable circumstances. Some thought they had dated many guys or girls and that should make up the education required of them to sustain peace, harmony and fulfilment in their marriages; unfortunately many people have been disappointed.
The  education  to upstart  and keep a home is more than generally gathered information , inferences  and observation in classes. There are always need for specific education about our spouse.
Importantly, a spiritually minded fellow may not be able to start and keep a home if his or her education is not extended to emotional, marital, sex, finance, relationship and communication. Education must be sought par time and continually.
Your spouse is a unique ideology; you must understand all the coded information about him or her. They must be decoded if you must appropriately enjoy your wife or husband.
A unique individual cannot be handled in the medium of assumption. We must understand all the possible Interaction and component in order to harvest expected benefits  in our homes.