Women

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Mmmmmm.

Ladies , have you ever wondered why without your body giving you any prior notice whatsoever or even a red light flashing or sirens wailing (at least), your voice cracks and tears stream down your face? Uncontrollable , in the midst of your best line , there come the tears and sobbing.I mean, could I actually get a warning that I am going to move from fine to crying.

How you wish you would stop but your heart wants to behave in another fashion.You would rather finish off the discussion on a no tear level yet even the strongest of mindsets lose this battle with the emotions.

I believe that tears humanizes the situation and removes from us the robotic notion of lacking compassion.Why woman cry have probably been on the mind of men from centuries old and I wonder if any brave soul has found a suitable explanantion.

Tears provide the release from complex emotions that can not be put into words.Tears reveal the heart when pride is staring you in the face.Tears reveal the nature of one’s commitment in a relationship.Tears divulge the truth of one’s feeling when confronted with adversity.For all the times one can deny one’s true feelings by locking them away in a paradigm of logic,once tears are out , all of truth is laid bare for the beholder. Increased emotions like love, enthusiasm and eagerness are major contributors. It may not overflow so that is why we speak of it as “welling eyes.” Strong emotion can cause us at first to appear tearful, and then to overflow and shed tears. We associate tears mainly with negative things like sadness ,death, frustration, self-pity, anger, broken relationships and lost love. But positive emotions like kids awards day or marriages of friends or accomplishment of goals can also produce tears. We can 'laugh till we cry'!

Tears replaces words one never has and woman seem to be carriers of always excess words in speech and in crying.We cry when we are sad, when we are proud, when we are afraid, when we are excited,when we are rejected,when we have company or when we are alone.We seem to have a tear for all occasions.

Tears are our strength and God given gift to help us across hurdles and obstacles.It is our personal therapist that soothes,refreshers and brings us to our breakthrough.It creates an avenue to release every hurtful feeling and thought into the open and caresses us back to moving on.It strengthens as it unleashes its power to heal us when we are broken.

When God created woman,he created us with an armour of tears.Jesus wept at Lazarus’ death and his love for Lazarus was evident.Tears are the evidence revealing one’s heart.It is the expression that is not camouflaged by one’s countenance.

So ladies , cry if you must , know that God loves you with an extreme love.Even if the world does not understand your tears , your Father in heaven does.Just as he knows the very hairs on your head,he sees your many tears and be sure that he does not forget.He will act in his time and will turn your mourning into dancing.

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