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No’s the hardest word to hear in languages today
You want them to say “yes” but then they take your hopes away
Whatever it is you ask them for you hope that they will say
A cheerful “yes” but they say “no you’ll find another way”
To help someone who needs the help or they’d be on the street
You send the funds not once but twice to help them make ends meet
But when they come to you again and ask you for a need
You indulge yourself to stop and think of their necessity
When will they ever learn to make a life out on their own
Instead of asking family and friends to make to them a loan
So you decide you’ll have to say - “No can do this time”
Then worry about the way you’ll feel when they get off the line
The words of hurt you’ll hear them say as though you’ve never helped
They’ll say you’re rich – they’re poor -
But then they just can’t help themselves
The life you live will measure out what you are dealt today
Will you be looked on as deprived or will they give you praise
It’s not that I have always been a giver yet I try
But I for one must weigh the odds or they can cross the line
How many times have you said yes but wanted to say no
Then find the friend you thought was yours and their true feelings show
Maybe it’s time to let them see you have your problems too
Yet try to show them you love them without making them blue
And so the ugly word to hear when you have had enough
Is that word “no” and you’ll feel sad - but it is called tough love
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Tough love, as we so fondly call it can oftentimes be a subtle form of "self preservation". So subtle in fact that we mistake the unction, the notion, the feeling for the leading of the Spirit. Jesus ministered according to OBEDIENCE, never according to NEED. "I do only those things I SEE my Father doing" is the difference. There will be those people that ask and ask and ask with no noticable change, still, though everything within us says "No", are we people that hear Him say "Yes" because we are trusting Him with our whole heart and leaning not on our own understanding? I've only posted this to temper, if you will, this article as "tough love" is a relative term. What some call "tough" may well be the most unloving act of them all, or worse, it may be disobedience. The Hearing Him say "Yes" compels us to stay closer to Him; maybe even closer to Him than the ones that continually ask of us. Think about it.
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