Family

Critical control points for homes

by Bolaji O.Timothy
01/05/19
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It is unfortunate that broken homes are prevalent. It does not just happen. There are many other problems confronting homes in our generation. They range from divorce, separation and major or minor crisis between husband and wife. The possible causes of these are unending.

Despite this, there are many homes loaded with inspirations where we can draw encouraging testimonies. These homes have rekindled our hope that Godly home with peace is achievable and sustainable no matter what.  God has never left the matter to man and woman, as long as He is invited and involved.

Broken homes are results of several confrontations, conflicts, negligence, carelessness, ignorance, challenges, failures, disappointment, unfaithfulness and host of other things.

Choice of spouse is one of the critical control points in marriage! However, it is not every one that is careful enough, equipped with relevant wisdom, understanding, knowledge and counselor. Even if this correctly done, proper choice making does not outrightly   immune any home against problems, challenges and temptations.  Wrong handling of these and lack of God in the home will give an easy pass to unnecessary crisis.
The master planner behind every home‘s calamities and crisis is Satan. However, degree of those problems are dependent on our understanding, wisdom and  willingness to work out  the home or choice making and living together as husband and wife. Satan does not take a leave, he may be silent, he is hopeful. He believes all the stages of marriage can be potent for him to sow seed of strife with chief goal to steal the peace, unity, and God’s promises. He want to drive men out of their EDEN!

Choice of spouse is critical in establishing a Godly home. However, It is not the only critical control points at home to prevent the infiltration of the enemies.

May God grant onto us Help, grace and wisdom. Amen