Marriage
The single brothers and sisters have a lot to do during courtship because not everybody that asks for your hand in marriage would seem to be compatible with you. The reason for this is that even the bible believing churches today are full of nominal and jelly fish kind of Christians.
You will find these kinds of people in every location of worship you visit. They are full of deceit and evil. They are very perfect in deceit and by the virtue of that it becomes very difficult before you could know who they really are. Some of them could be sisters while some are brothers; and their usual victims are the singles in the church looking for the will of God faithfully.
Do not be surprised, a genuine believer could come across people like these in courtship, yes it is very much possible you must not be surprised. Our God is a wise God, if people of such evil character do not ask for your hand in marriage how would you know who they are really? So do not be surprised they would come your way, but whenever you begin to sense their mischief and diplomacy because of the spirit of God in you, be very fast to take a wise decision.
To avoid any form of ambiguity and to ensure clarity on this matter, these are the possible demeanor and attributes of partners who are not compatible. When a so called brother approaches you as your partner and after some while during courtship he is asking for sex, you should not think twice concerning his matter you must run away from him. He is a false brother and as a result of that, he is not compatible.
If you discover stubbornness and self imposition or an act of interpersonal domineering in the life of a sister who is in courtship with you, the best thing for you to do is to call the relationship off. If you try to manage her and maneuver things for yourself, she would not allow you to enjoy the relationship in the long run. You will be frustrated to the extent of renouncing the faith. It will also take the grace of God before you could ever get to heaven because such women are not compatible to the people of God.
What about sisters who are very skillful in interpersonal appraisal? When you propose to a sister who has made it a point of duty to know your worth before she could accept your proposal, if I should tell you the truth, such sisters are lot's wife reincarnated kind of a personality. You must run away from them. If you ever go into marriage with them, they would make you our contemporary Lot.
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