Oh my! I am so glad I DID stumble on this tonight. You really are going through so much, and I am definitely joining my prayers with yours for God to provide the strength to face whatever comes your way, and the grace to meet your every need.
As you've marked this as wanting critique, I will say that it does need a bit of tightening throughout to help the flow and make sure the reader can connect all the dots. It read more like a blog post, where the reader is familiar with you, your family, your circumstances and your background.
Even so, my heart is with you and your family in this time of hardship. It seems that in the midst of it all, you've managed to retain your sense of humor, as the comment about "dog years" shows (I actually had a chuckle over that). With a bit of editing, I believe this piece could minister to many going through similar circumstances.
With love (and prayers), Deb (Editor, FaithWriters' Magazine and Challenge Coordinator)