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TITLE: The Power of Positive Change | Previous Challenge Entry
By Tracy Rose
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Changing this pattern began with me. I needed to modify my own behaviors and become a role model for my children. I challenged the negatives and tried to find the good in situations, things and people. I still find myself reverting back to those thoughts at times, but I am able to correct myself and find the right attitude again. I also applied this thinking towards a healthier lifestyle in general. I found support in my husband and joined a local support group.
Changing the pattern also meant changing the way I handled my sons on a daily basis. The first thing I chose to do was provide unconditional love. I also provide support, respond to them with interest, emphasize a positive attitude, encourage activities and interests, instill Christian values, and express pride and joy in each of them. Not only do we have mutual respect, but I have learned to respect and value myself.
As the change took place in me, I noticed small changes in my sons too. They were responding well to my new attitude and they were reaping the benefits of a healthy lifestyle and a happy mom. Suddenly they were behaving better, trying new activities, making healthier food choices, displaying more confidence and were generally happier. This is the power of positive change.
I want my children to know that I am a strong, independent woman. More importantly, I want them to believe in themselves. I want them to experience life to its fullest and enjoy their time in this world and beyond. I can only hope that they will pass along the positive viewpoint and create a happy environment for their own children one day.
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