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Topic: Mothers (05/02/05)
TITLE: Standing on the Sidelines
By Rebecca Yauger
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You watch a child fall time and again as he learns to walk. You see your child lose his balance and even scrape his knee as he masters riding a bicycle. You tell your son that he has to finish the baseball season and not quit even though he argues that he’ll never get a hit and it’s a waste of time. But as we know from experience, he learns to walk, ride a bike and hit the ball, also while learning determination, perseverance and commitment.
And now I watch one more time as my 20-year-old son is facing his first major heartbreak. He came home from college for a weekend visit recently, and announced that his girlfriend of four years broke up with him. He was terribly heartbroken and depressed. Mike and Tina had been inseparable for years, dating through high school and even choosing to attend the same college so they could stay close to each other. But Tina told him she needed to stand on her own two feet and find out who she was without him. While, personally, I think she’s being very smart and doing something I’d advise my own daughter to do; my son, on the other hand, was blindsided by this and feels betrayed.
Watching his teary eyes, slumped shoulders and lack of appetite, made me ache for him. Unlike his scraped knee, I couldn’t put a band-aid on his heart. But I believe he will learn important life lessons from this that will serve him well into adulthood.
He told us that he is going to quit dragging his feet on looking for a job. He vows to get more involved with school and making friends. He’ll do the same thing Tina is doing: trying to stand on his own two feet.
I’m on the sidelines again, doing my best to comfort him, although I’m not able to protect him from the hurt, and knowing I shouldn’t even try. His heart will heal and grow stronger again and he will discover who he really is in this life. Then I’ll look forward to being with him on that day when he has his own child and he’ll stand at the sidelines watching that child learn the lessons of life.
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