Loneliness verses Aloneness.” The Answer”
1.Don’t expect from others what you are not willing to give.
2.Don’t blame others for your aloneness or loneliness it’s not their fault.
3.If you want others to reach out to you. Then you must reach out to others.
4.You need to remover the shell of self-centeredness of the ‘me’ and ‘I’ so there is room for ‘we’ and ‘us’.
5.Don’t blame other for rejection if you are secretly rejecting others for rejecting you.
So often we are expecting others to fill our void. We don’t realize we are blaming them for the void.
People may want to reach out to you. But they feel rejected by you because even though this sounds crazy but you are blaming them for and rejecting them for something they did not do.
Don’t expect life to come to you as it will never will. You will spend the rest of your life looking for it and it will never come to you.
You will find life by living and not existing in that world yourself created by blaming life for your situation.
What we sow we reap!
Life is like a garden. If you are not planting don’t expect a crop!
Stop wishing and complaining because your garden is empty! “ Start Planting”
Remember! Don’t expect others to plant your garden for you for they have no way of knowing what you need in your garden or life.
Give to life and you will find life’s doors are open not closed.
When you decide to reach out instead of ‘in’ your shell of aloneness or loneliness some will seem to reject you. Don’t let that make you crawl back into the shell. Because it just might be that person may not know how to reach out and is alone or in the same situation you were once in.
Look at this for a minute. Vision yourself in a crowded room. You are alone in the mist of many people. What would it take for you to not be ‘alone’ in that room of people?
The answer is ‘action’ on your part. You give what you want to receive.
This is the answer and to all who are alone and suffer loneliness. It is choice to move out and reach out and give what you want to fill the void.
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