Stolen bread is sweet and sin is sweet as honey. This is a phrase all men believe in. When Adam was created he was instructed not to eat that certain tree. Eve came and told him how sweet the fruit was. Then Adam tested and the sin came in the world. Since then sin has been committed by man kind. For every man in the world it has become like a habit to like the other woman or lady. In my country it is a natural thing to look back after a woman has passed by. Even preachers have fallen from the glory of God by the desire to taste the other woman. Cheating is and it has been there since the time of Old Testament.
One of the most painful experiences for any woman is finding out that her man is cheating on her.
Although your womanly instincts will have warned you several times that your man is straying, you will not listen because you are in denial.
In any case, the most important thing is to ask why he’s doing it.
Until you get the answers to this question, thoughts of your man stabbing you in the back will keep haunting you, posing a serious threat to your relationship.
For some insight that could save you the agony and lead you to a deeper understanding, here are some hints on why your man could be straying:
He’s out to get a quick fix
Instead of putting effort in salvaging a rocky relationship, most men would rather take the easy way out and have an affair.
Let’s take a look at this scenario — your relationship is so messed up that when you get together, all you do is argue.
At this point, cheating with any other woman will seem so much easier to your man than having to admit that something is seriously wrong with your relationship.
In other words, he is driven to cheat by fear of committing to mend the faltering relationship.
When confronted with such a situation, most men will ask themselves, “Am I capable of handling this if my efforts to mend the relationship backfire? Will things turn out worse than they were? Will society consider me a total failure as a man because I could not salvage the relationship?”
And when it comes to marriage, the thought of divorcing and upsetting everyone’s lives is much too hard to handle, so most men opt for an affair.
This is not justifiable, but the truth is that most brothers would rather take the “rat route”, hoping their spouse never finds out about their mischief.
His soul is guilty as charged Genes are supposedly responsible for a whole lot of things men have little control over, among them their competitive nature.
Men love challenges, whether it’s sports, career or his social network, the “your man’ will focus on conquering and winning.
Wrong as this might sound, the wit and trickery men use to get away with cheating on their wives provide a sense of winning or accomplishment.
Besides, men simply cannot resist the challenge of chasing after other women they will give as much as they can to lure the woman...
Although they enjoy the sexual part of the affair, it’s the chase that really drives a man to be unfaithful.
Dear brethren lets seek the protection of God so as not to sin. Beautiful ladies and cheap ones are all over and ready to help you with whatever you are lacking in your family.
Sisters please let’s not deny our husbands there rights to access us at any time. If we fail to satisfy them in their wells our neighbors will.
God bless you and be careful.
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