A soul- tie is the knitting together of two souls that can either bring tremendous blessings in a godly relationship or tremendous destructive effects when made with the wrong person in disguise. The stronger the soul-tie, the more the persons look alike and act like each other. The persons are strongly bound to each other emotionally and physically.
MAN IS A TRUPARTITE BEING BY CREATIVE NATURE BY GOD:
When God created man in Gen. 1: 26-27. He made man in His likeness and the man that was made had a :spirit, soul and body (I Thess. 5:23).
God created us:
As a Spirit form :With which we relate to God who is a spirit (John 4:24).
As a Soul form : is the source of a personís emotional, spiritual and moral nature. Mind, will and intellect and through this we relate to other human beings also.
As a Body form : In which we live for our short time here on earth and through which we fulfills the desires of our heart and communicate with others co- human beings .
Man is a spirit and has a soul and lives inside a body or flesh. The soul is the seat of emotions, will, intellect and the mind. The soul has the ability to join with other or more souls; inorder to form soul-ties. And with the person of a soul-tied, there is always an open door for transference of spirits to take place(positively or negatively), so care must be taken as with whom we form soul- ties with.
TYPES OF SOUL - TIES:
1. Soul- tie with God:
Soul-tie with God is the soul-tie someone forms with God.The advantage of soul-tie with God is totally positive/ would make someone to meet Him in heaven(heaven race makings).Why God would says well done my son or daughter.
Soul- tie with God brings divine protection/insurance, peace, joy, good health and fruitfulness to man. The stronger the soul -tie with God; the more the person takes on the nature of God and begins to exhibit some attributes of God. Such as righteousness, holiness,love,unshaken faith, spiritual authority and powers over forces of darknesses, etc. (Deut. 10:20; Isaiah 54:5; I Cor. 6:17; Eph. 5:30, 32).
2. Positive or Godly Soul -tie:
Positive or Godly soul-tie is the soul-tie which someone forms with a fellow human being here on earth.One of God's top master plans is for all man to love his neighbour as oneself;espercially among born again faithful christians.Accordingly to Godís plan and purposes for mankind. In positive or godly soul- tie, each party seeks for the good of each other or one another. Each is willing to sacrifice for each other or one another, even when it hurts to sacrifice.
Example of Positive or Godly Soul-tie are soul-ties between husband and wife, children and parents, brothers and sisters with each other, within wider family cycle, with brothers and sisters in Christ, with honest friends , with ministers of God.
A Biblical example of positive or Godly soul-ties is the soul-tie Jonathan ( the son of king Saul) ; entered with David (I Sam. 18:1, 3, 4, I Sam. 20:17B). Even when his father king Saul tried to kill David, he didn't betray David; instead protected him by leaking king Saul's sensitive secret of secrets out to him .Because of that ,David loved Jonathan so much/ soul-tied with him.And doesn't want his father to eliminate David (his very dear friend) .
Another example could be seen in the book of Ruth, Ruth the daughter-in-law of Naomi willingly gave up her own family, gods and homeland or country and followed Naomi to her own very land and to serve Naomiís God (Ruth 1:1-18). This was positive as a result of positive soul-tie that had been formed between both of them. Our Lord Jesus Christ came out of Ruth lineage, assuming Ruth didnít followed the true way, perhaps, she wouldnít had been Jesus great(s) /grand fore-grandmother.
3. Negative or ungodly soul-tie:
Negative or ungodly soul- ties is the soul-ties which someone enters with another person and that is bringing problem to someone. When a person who is soul-tied to another is influenced by selfish motives, covers, gains,etc. The soul-tie between them can easily enable the selfish person to manipulate, deceive and abuse the other. When compared to Godís master plans and purposes (I Cor. 6:16; Gen. 34:1-31; 2 Tim. 3:6;Proverb 6:27-29, 32; 2 Cor. 11:20).
A Biblical example of negative or ungodly soul-tie is the soul-tie between Samson and Delilah, when Samson went into her camp; against the wish of God for him (Judges 16:1-21).The end result was a premature and painful death for samson.
Another Biblical example taken , is the soul-tie between shechem and Dinah of the defilement of Dinah by Shechem.And Dinah the daughter of Leah, which she bare unto Jacob, when she went out to see the daughters of the land.And when Shechem the son of Hamor the Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her, and lay with her, and defile her.The complete story to how the accidental marriage got broken can be read from (Gen: 34:1-31).
In our own endtime time, so many marriages are being contracted in a like manner on daily basis and without having any other option than to forcefully going ahead(managing marriage).
Others examples , like in our own present time are:
a. Unholy soul-tie with another sexual partners other than oneís husband or wife (extra- marital affairs).
b. Illicit sexual involvements (not yet married but having illicit sexual affairs of fornications).
c. Sexual involvement with demonic agents (I King 11:1-4).
d. Homosexual practices (gay & lesbianism).
e. Incest: This is a sexual relationship between close relations in a family or who are related by blood or by marriage, e.g. brother & sister, brother-in-law with sister-in-law, with step mother, etc. when a sexual acts of this kind take place, an ungodly soul-tie would be established. Thereby opening doors for other evil spirits to come in into oneís foundation. And also one would definitely come under curse from God (Lev. 18:6; 20:11-14,20:20;Deut. 27:20-23).
f. Sexual intercourse between the living and the dead ďevil practices by some mortuary workers or attendants or ccultist persons.
g.These days also some people even goes ahead to be marrying animals(beatiality acts).
Negative soul-tie can also be formed with people who sometimes unknowingly uses occultist power over someone e.g. employers, business partners, any of oneís worker or employee, bad friends, those that believes and uses satanic love medicines to manipulate or switch any of their intended subject, etc..