I want to settle down is a common statement by singles when getting married. Marriage is a cage for some people. A cage of grace, gift and excellence needed to fulfill purpose. While to some, it is a help . There, their grace, gift and endowment are focused for fulfilling purposes.
Most importantly, these two words “settle down” means dream of peace, comfort, and progress at home. These are achievable and have by many. Unfortunately, they are alien to many people’ experiences.
God said it is not good to be alone and God proposed a help meet for the man. But here, there must be a critical process- The making process. “I will make him a help meet”. Every woman that dreams an Eden –model of a home must be subjected to God’s making process. While God was busy in this process, the man has some responsibilities and he must always be committed to these. A deep sleep, the removal of that one rib and as well busy keeping and dressing the garden!
These two procedures are unavoidable for both men and women with potential of Eden model Home. Virtuous woman and precious man are not born, they are made. They are worked upon by God!
The Choice of a compatible spouse needs these making processes. The making and molding process must be well adapted and effective in whatever method employed in the choice of a spouse! Then, Eden Model of Home is achievable!
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