Speaking of dreams, there is one type that concerns me and widows often suffer these type of dreams. When a loved one passes away, widows will often dream of their significant other, abandoning them, or mistreating them in some way. Most widows, especially those who had a good marriage, will often dream of their loved ones telling them they don't ever want to see them again or they are going away and never coming back; and often, it is done through the phone or through a letter or other type of mail or communication but never in person. The reason why widows dream of their significant others being absent in their dreams and why their deceased loved ones tell them they don't want to be with them anymore is because God is trying to tell them, they must let go. Most widows will also wake up feeling distraught, angry, hurt or depressed and these are very real emotions.
God is not trying to hurt the dreamer when He give them these dreams, but is letting the dreamer know they are hurting themselves by refusing to accept the passing of their loved ones and moving on. There is a difference between knowing someone has passed and accepting their passing. When a person inwardly refuses to accept the passing of their loved ones, they haunt themselves with painful emotions that God is trying to make them see via dreams. He does this because it is not healthy for an individual to suffer these things and want them to see what they are doing to themselves so that they can find the courage to accept and move on. Only until then, will their pain finally heal so that these dreams can stop.
Anyone who dreams of these similar type of dreams with a loved one that has not passed away, it means that something in the relationship is gone and they must face and accept it in order to move on. Whenever a person has dreams of someone they love hurting them (especially if that person does NOT hurt them in real life), it often means God is trying to show them they are hurting themselves by refusing to accept something about them or a situation, regarding their relationship.
So, I felt I had to share this because the tears of widows are many and my heart truly longs for them to find comfort. May God give them comfort and I hope this Wisdom that came from Him helps them.
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