2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
But he answered and said, it is not meet to take the children's bread, and to cast it to dogs. Matthew 15:26...
Do not contract marriage with God's enemy, neither with a spouse who can not make decisions without consulting 'mummy' or 'daddy' nor for reasons other than DIVINE SELECTION.
Time and experience has revealed to us that WE must carefully choose who to 'give' the gift of , the-rest-of-our-lives
It is pure wisdom to prayerfully pick your Adam or Eve by the Grace of God, this is because this would be the RELATION that you have a choice of picking so you should carefully and wisely pick!
Many marriages today were entered-into for many reasons other than DIVINE.
Many were done in COMPLETE ignorance thereby getting engaged to the ENEMY in marital union!
God admonishes us about unequal yoking, He encourages us NOT to be unequally yoked so that we would be saved the headache (migraine more like it) and avoid entering into unions that were not predestined, unions that could hinder, derail and even destroy your destined purpose on Earth.
This determines the totality of a person's destiny!
In marriage, you could end up with an encourager , a discourager, molder of destiny or destroyer of destiny.
A believer is to seek God’s face in ALL things before making decisions especially where marraige is concerned because the price is VERY high when you do it your way...
Faulty foundations are often built upon when many marriages of our day are CONSUMATED, this is disastrous!
IF THE FOUNDATION BE DESTROYED, WHAT CAN THE RIGHTEOUS DO?
... marriage based on:
love of wealth,
love of beauty,
lust after physical attraction,
lust leads a person to being LOST
marriage with a known womaniser(called a SOUL drifter),
known alcoholic, drug-addict,emotional instability sufferer
Man or woman possesed by familiar spirits/ having spirit friends,
man/woman having a different faith and belief even in 'church' circle (there are sects who call themselves CHURCHES but they are the synagogue of satan!)...
These are the wrong reasons to getting married
A demonic in-law is the devil’s advocate in a marriage SENT RIGHT FROM THE PIT OF HELL; this one is on a mission to pollute, demote and destroy;
making life unbearable, a re-creation of hell-on-earth for one party in that union (on the long run ...for both) either because the marriage was not expected or agreed-to, in the beginning in the evil spiritual realm, because if it is allowed to be a peaceful union... this will be a challenge to the evil kingdom ... TROUBLE!
THE DEVIL HATES THE SANCTITY OF MARRAIGE, reason why he attacks it so much is so that God's divine purpose may not be fufilled here on Earth... and am not talking procreation here, Jesus says "This is a mystery... TWO BECOMING ONE"... 1 plus 1 equals 1!!!
Many strange things happen to hinder this divinely ordained union:
A man is spiritually married to his mother in some cases; a time bomb waiting to explode creating major catastrophe in its wake and in the face of the woman who is married to him, these are the type that are usually referred to as being ‘ tied to their mum’s apron strings’, baby-husband he is but, for the one with a discerning eye the exchange of rings is ALREADY on both fingers; between MOTHER and SON.
And the woman who ALL of the time is seeking for solutions from her father or mother concerning her marraige is building on a wrong foundation; not being able to make any decisions without involving them and asking for their counsel (nothing wrong with this within limits) or permission, making their word law, then this is spiritual bondage of a dimension that needs the bondage breaker who can deliver from and plunder the house of the ' strong man', to set the captive free… His name is Jesus Christ.
If you find yourself already in such a situation of unhappiness;where love, respect or confidence does not exist in your marraige ... pray and wait for God to direct you on what next to do ..make no rash decisions.
He alone can help you NOT to make same mistake all over again, he shall restore and rebuild that aspect of your life according to His will and purpose.
There is nothing more beautiful and peaceful, than the BONE of your BONES and the FLESH of your FLESH with whom you shall work and walk in blissful harmony and perfect UNITY heading for a common GOAL in life...Anything otherwise will definitely lead nowhere, no matter the human-struggle to sustain it, rather it would steal and destroy one’s peace and joy, would most definitely and eventually lead to aggression, violence due to sudden unexplainable frustration and hatred, in some cases ... even death.
John-the-Baptist-like prayers/faith are necessary to deal with this type of stubborn and unrepentant enemy,
fire-prayers-Elijah style is needed to crush the power base of such stubborn problems to prove the might of God above all other powers so as to live according to God's will in a BLESSED union.
If you died today, are you absolutely certain that you would go to heaven? You can be! TRUST JESUS NOW
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