Let His Love flow all around you and let the good things that He wants to do for you happen. Let's go to:
Psalms 15:3 "He that backbiteth not with his tongue, nor doeth evil to his neighbor, not taketh up a reproach against his neighbor."
backbiteth (Strong's 7270) backbite or spy out;
tongue (Strong's 3766) accuses or slander;
evil (Strong's 7489) to show self friendly, but evil; to spoil, good for nothing, bad or break into pieces;
neighbor (Strong's 7462) to associate with, friend or companion;
taketh (Strong's 5375) to lift, bring forth, carry or obtain;
reproach (Strong's 2778) to expose (by stripping), blaspheme or defame;
against (Strong's 5921) over, against (in downward aspect) or concerning.
So remember that you are here for Him and to let Him flow through you onto those dear people around you. So choose those you associate wisely and be around positive, uplifting people so that you can enjoy your life more and be there for dear God. It is good to be there for friends, but remember your limits and that you never want to be pulled down into that negative mode and away from dear God and what he wants from you. If you are not positive and strong in the way He needs you to be to be happy and share His Love, then you will be no good for anyone if all of your positive energy is pulled out by negativity. Always use common sense in every situation and know what you can and cannot do, always pointing your friends and loved ones up to Him that can help.
By keeping in the Word you are grounded and know if something is part of God's Plan or not and you keep disciplined. That way you are not pulled down by things of this world that take time away from what He wants you to do and on the focus of Him and His Love.
There is nothing like being in His Presence so go to Him each day, even if it is just a little bit of time, and make some time for Him. You will be so glad you did because He loves you and you will be regenerated by His Loving and Powerful Presence.
Finally, let His Love flow all around you. Feel free to laugh, smile and enjoy those dear people that He puts into your life and to have joy. Happiness is always a choice just like loving dear God. It is a benefit you need to strive for so do it for yourself. He is always glad when you are happy, too. He loves you so much. Let Him know that you care and make Him Smile!