Today the start of a long weekend for the teaching profession. As in previous years, I was relatively calm. Not in a hurry to get back and forth. At the other fellow as I can not wait for a while removing a sense of missed to my hometown, I try to enjoy the delicious first holiday in my home here. Rather than not miss the house in the village, but due to current conditions are not right.
A week before the long holiday begins, has a lot to talk about the nuances that lead to my hometown, college memories, hash house while in college, the streets of memories with someone first, and of course, is the childhood home to teens who have impression for every people. After a long time abroad, it's going home and staying for a few days at home are very happy. Not just because of the physical memory of the house itself, but a sense of peace, family, and mother and their happiness with Mr. saudaralah that attracted all the people in the overseas for homecoming. Passion and a sense of missed it prior to going home is perceived by a person who has fond memories with the family. This further proves that the sense of peace, family, and a sense bahagialah more importantly, not all, ─˛rumah, Ao, which means the physical building.
What about people who do not have a past that is always beautiful as a child? Is there a desire for homecoming as well as everyone else? Usually there is less seh lost interest. If not would not be forced to go home. It also proves that, ─˛rumah, Ao is always missed by the fact that everyone is not the physical form of the house as a building, but the spirit, or the atmosphere there. There's even the experience of a colleague, even as childhood home once more leave the bad memories / traumas, but when the body afflicted with pain and the moment of death would pick him up, there is still a sense of missed to remove the last breath in my hometown. Quizzed had inquired, even as most of his childhood living there is less good, but there is a speck of good memories with her mother who made her peace. Well, even a speck of memories of the peace in his home used to be able to remove and overcome trauma received. And of course, he can release his last breath there in his childhood home, leaving the happy smile on his lips.
A sense of peace, a sense of peace, and happiness is what is called a real home. As good as any physical form home, which is especially needed is, ─˛rumah, Ao in the sense of peace and so that. It could be that people who during his life living in a house that is as good as the court did not feel at home living there. Conversely, it could be persons with a very simple house, but every spirit always came home from work to go home, because it can not wait to spend time with his children and wife who always made him happy. Now we can get a little reflection, if we all always feel miss to our home immediately after every home from work? While at home or in our office are still making excuses and activities to get home late at night? Or as a standby at home, do you feel your husband / wife we feel reluctant and not the spirit, opening the door of the house itself? Are our children more fun to play and stay at a neighbor or friend, rather than spending time with his own family? If so, do not have dreamed to build and equip the house with a furnished house is very full, not even necessarily have to buy all the stuff our children's favorite, because it's useless. That's not necessary that more of our children, or husbands / wives. And in reality, it is fair if they are not welcome to stay at home alone, because actually we do not provide, ─˛rumah, Ao is real. The house is actually a sense of peace, happiness, comfort, feeling valued, and so forth. That's true home that will make everyone feel at home, and make all family members are always filled with a sense of missed while away from home.
So how do we physically house all this time? Worried because the house is small, with rudimentary furniture? Or jealous of a neighbor's house is the better? Or can not sleep well because it wanted to renovate the house, so that his two-story home as peers? No need to worry by things like that are not essential. That is not what is actually needed by our children become, not what will make us feel at home, not concentrating on will make the husband wanted to go home. It was simply supporting the umpteenth priority. If you want to have a house that is always missed by all family members, get up his spirit. Build a cozy atmosphere, a peaceful atmosphere, an atmosphere of mutual respect, mutual love, and of course the spirit of gratitude for graces received. Given grace the husband / wife a good and responsible, grace for a child entrusted to us. If it's all being built, will undoubtedly create a real home. Home Sweet Home my friends .....
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