Girl sees boy. Girl falls in love with boy. Boy doesn’t see girl. Boy doesn’t know girl exists. This is not a love story, no, this is something far worse. This is reality. In the love stories that we have all come to cherish, the girl finds a way to make the boy notice her, and by the end of the story there is kissing followed by a wonderful soundtrack. This is what we all want to see, therefore it is played in the movies, portrayed in childrens books, and worst of all it is revered by all as truth. From the moment we are born we are told we are special…unique. I am special, and therefore the man of my dreams will fall right into my arms, and kiss me and somewhere in the background I will hear music that highlights the moment. This is sounding familiar. Yes, I do believe I’ve seen a hundred movies that end in this very fashion. But unfortunately, unless you are born and shipped right to Hollywood for make-up and lipo-suction, you will never experience one of those magic moments for yourself. Do you wanna know why? It is because real men do not understand what women want, or how we would like any certain moment to be the romantical highlight of our lives. Our first kiss should be a memorable occasion. It should mark the moment when we became Juliet and won the man of our dreams. Instead it can go somewhat like this… “I wanna kiss ya” “Oh yeah?” “Yeah” “Okay.” *kiss* Did that moment sound magical? If you said yes you obviously have no capacity for understanding romance in all of it’s magical nature and you must be a man. I have come to realize that romance is not simply a moment or a feeling. Rather it is the realization that the small unromantic things make up the framework of the feelings that a man might have for you. Romance is simply a concept that each woman determines for herself. In short, romance does not exist in the real world. Look at Romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolde, Jack Dawson and Rose DeWittBukater. Their stories ended with tragedy. Love existed, but the true height of the romance was their ultimate demise for something greater than themselves. In truth, it was a concept they died for, not something they knew was fact. And stories like Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty, there wasn’t an end to their story. Nobody knows what happens in the end. Did they still love each other fifty years down the line? Were they always happy? No of course they weren’t. But what an end that would make. “and they lived unhappily ever after, fighting over who would make the bed and do the dishes.” The cause for divorce= fairy tales.
So why hasn’t this story been written yet? Well because it is too depressing to think about for an extended period of time, and well who would read it? Life goes on, and we can only grow from learning these fundamental truths. Who knows? Perhaps this will save you from waiting for the prince to ride up on his white stallion. My conclusion is simply, live life with no regrets. I’m not gonna sit around and wait for some prince to find me. I’m gonna live, see the world, and meet new people. If he’s anybody worth knowing, I’ll meet him along the way. Is life a fairy tale? No. Life is something much better. Life is an adventure.
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You started with all the wrong feelings, and imperfect knowledge. "It is because real men do not understand what women want, or how we would like any certain moment to be the romantical highlight of our lives. "In short, romance does not exist in the real world."
This simply isn't true, unless you lisen to satan. In short romance does exist and in the real world, and thru GOD you can find it, but the secrete is, as my friend would would say: "A girls heart must be so hidden in God that a man has to seek GOD to find it."
Keep writing and God Bless!