We all believe that correction or disciplines are important in training of behaviors, even though we don't like it, may because we've not had any better way to help someone become better, so the world believe it's moral for we to correct one another.
First of all, correction does not comes unless something wrong is been exhibited and if issues like that are not addressed quickly, it either means we are ignoring it or its acceptable, but that does not mean , what's wrong is right. so for the world to experience a smile and to hear the sounds of laughter, we have to stand up and point out what wrong to one another.
Nevertheless, its painful that the consequences that have been experienced from this positive intended, is devastating. Men have been destroyed, heart shattered, self image banished and low self esteem birthed. like a art, the act of correction must be mastered so as not to inflict terrible scars on the lives of Men.
In the case of this, the man who intends to correct his neighbor, must first have in mind that, there is always a reason for every action, and we consciously know our actions, but might and might not intend to do it in a wrong way, then finally that the individual still have emotions. With these premise, any who must correct, reprove, advise, counsel must gives his/her words backed with sincere love and not jealousy or anger.
From the onset and till the onset of another day, mistakes will be made, lines will be crossed, ill behaviors exhibited, this will surely not suit anyone, but we need to know how to bring out greater destiny out of Men who are guilty.
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