Do good women still exist? Can women these days be trusted? Can you still find a virtuous woman? The answer is yes. It's very possible to find a good woman but a lot of men fall into the arms of the wrong women because they are drawn by the wrong things. Of course when you see a woman the first thing that will get your attention is her appearance but as you approach the woman you must look further than just the appearance. It's very important to examine her character and her personality. Spend some time with her and begin to study her character and do not let her appearance get in the way of the examination, try to ignore that and focus on finding her inner beauty. I believe that a woman/man you date should have attributes of a person you intend on marrying. The message that I am trying to send out to men is that they must look past the appearance and find the true beauty which comes from within. The word says in Proverb 31:10 "Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies."
Finding a virtuous woman would mean that you would have to look past the appearance because virtue does not come from the outer appearance, it comes from within. Ask yourself Can I trust this woman? Will she always be here for me? Could she be a good mother and role model to our kids one day? Does she love God with all her heart? If you are able to answer YES with confidence to all these questions then I believe you have found the right woman. A woman is a gift from God given to a man. When you find that right woman I ask that you give her the love and respect that she deserves. Many times men have lost the right woman due to the fact that they are unable to appreciate the value of a good woman. Only a REAL man understands the value of a REAL woman. Be blessed and remember that the word says in the book of Proverbs 18:22 "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD." It doesn't say girlfriend, boo, Jumpoff, sidechick it says WIFE.
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