What is unique? Unique means being special, apart from others or one of a kind. Unique is not following the crowd in what is considered popular, such as the latest fads, fashions or lifestyles. Unique is being different from those who have no desire to become productive and successful in life after school.We have young girls who live only to please their boyfriends with sex thinking that will keep them faithful. Yet they're ignorant that most worldly men have sex with a number of girls as a means to express their manhood.
It's not about love with them but simply a physical activity to satisfy their lustful urges.They feel no guilt in having other affairs with females and don't mind lying to them in believing they're loved or cared for. They tell these naive girls just what they want to hear so they will give up their bodies to please these players. Young girls from unhappy homes who feel neglected are easy targets for such unsavory types to take advantage of.
Its not worth losing one's health by catching a STD,HIV or AIDS. A lifetime of regrets over a moment of pleasure.Being unique will not let anyone pressure you to do something you don't want to do.There are young men who have no ambition to be something positive in life. Failure in school that leads to deadend jobs that pay little. Some resort to criminal activity trying to get that quick buck that eventually lead to jail sometimes repeatedly.
Some men don't mind having sex but let the girl get pregnant and they're quick to deny being the father blaming the girl of fooling around which reveals how little he cared for her.And those who admit they are the father yet won't step up to the plate and be responsible to take care of the child becomes deadbeat dads. The girl then face the possibility of fighting such a man for the next 20 years of that child's life for child support.
A person being unique will not settled for any old thing just to say I have a boyfriend or girlfriend. They are particular and careful of who they want to have a relationship with.With them its about keeping themselves for that special person who they want to marry for life when they are mature and ready for it.
But if one live a lifestyle of being a "booty call" for someone that's how they will always be treated and seeking love and fulfillment will never be realized.You'll have young girls ending up with 3 or 4 babies with different daddys, living on welfare still at home with mom with nothing to show for but a bleak future.The one who considers being unique will not fall in these traps that happens to so many young people.
Unique is saying I'm saved and will not run with the world's lifestyle and mindset.God's Spirit resides in me and that's why I'm UNIQUE
If you died today, are you absolutely certain that you would go to heaven? You can be! TRUST JESUS NOW
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