When love begins, it is like a fire that has been kindled with a spark.
At first sight it is intriguing and mystifying, afterwards follows the words that thrill, an action or a chain of admirable responses; it simply spreads and eventually bursts into full emotional flames.
In many cases both or one of the two involved goes into the relationship blindly with reckless abandon.
At the point where an interaction/contact seems to want to sweep one off one’s feet like a wild wave, it is important to take a deep breath and ask questions:
It is the time to tread with wisdom, seek good counsel, watch and pray, be not blinded but wise, be willing to listen to one very important phrase: take a pause and,
Be careful who you say, “YES I DO” to.
Why’, you say,
‘Because they effect and affect what the rest of your life will be like.
You have given such a person the power and authority over a large percentage of who – you-are and who-you-are-going-to-be!
Simply put, they join you in decision making (planned or unplanned), sometimes they even decide for you what they believe is best for you , oftentimes ignorantly or purposely making the wrong choices, out of fear of WHO YOU ARE DESTINED TO BE, an envious heart or because of their myopic views and limited understanding of issues.
Help mate should you be with the one whom you decide to live the rest of your life with not hindering-mate.
Evil communication corrupts good manners.
God in His infinite wisdom tells us from the
beginning not to be unequally yoked.
Uneven and a lopsided coming together of extreme opposites and parallels in word, deed, thoughts, social interaction, mind-set and above all SPIRITUAL inclinations can only bring a life-time of pain, broken/uncompleted and even dead dreams, lack of energy/depleting energy reserve and above all, continuous agonizing discouragements.
In a case where one does not look before he leaps, wrong choices are made which results in unending pain (Physical or otherwise).
Be careful who you say, “YES I DO” to, BECAUSE THIS PERSON IS NOT AN ENTITY BUT ATTACHED TO A STRING OF OTHERS CALLED BIOLOGICAL FAMILY.
Pray and check out the background and the commitments that bind that could, if care is not taken be a stumbling block in all your future Endeavour with the one you choose
God’s choice is the best because He alone knows who is your bone-of-bone and flesh-of-flesh, the real ADAM for every EVE and vice versa
Do you feel you should do a rethink about that one whom you always thought the SUN (should be the SON) shined from their eyes and very being?
Ask Jesus before you say YES, I DO because He alone knows who really WILL DO
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