I like myself; I learned the hard way to like myself, to be my own best companion. I learned through a life-threatening illness. I have survived the life-threatening part of the catastrophic illness I suffered and it has changed my life, especially the recovery. As difficult and traumatic as it all was, I can honestly say I am a better person for all I have endured and all the remnants of illness I face every day.
I learned to like myself, I like spending time with myself, I am a good fun person. I am insightful, smart, pretty, well some days, I am a good friend, wife and mother, sister and grandmother, I can turn anyoneís bad day into a good day by offering a smile, hope and encouragement, if the person is willing to listen. I am pleasant, kind, and creative, I am a very good cook and caretaker of many things. Iíve earned my place in this life and although for me there might not be a tomorrow, I live on my terms, not someone elseís, well except Godís.
Recently, in conversation with a friend, I was trying my best to share how I had come to like myself and I was very surprised to hear my friend say, thatís what I need to do, like myself. You see, Iíd filed away the fact that not everyone likeís themselves. Iíd forgotten for a moment how difficult it was to overcome my loss of self-esteem and self-worth. My friends words gave me pause, I remembered the harsh words spoken at me in my life, how the beating down of my self-esteem made me feel. I remembered the years of work it took and those people in my life who helped me to stand up again, to like myself.
I will no longer hide behind furniture, cowering in fear for anyone. I like myself too much to go back to that life. Everyone should be able to say, I like myself and I love my Lord, Jesus Christ, who has stuck with me through my whole life.
If you died today, are you absolutely certain that you would go to heaven? You can be! TRUST JESUS NOW
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