Maybe it's me but this is how it's looked on this end.
Extraordinary came along saying that we cannot continue in sin and expect to gain eternal life . . . and sometimes what he / she said did sound works based, yet I'm not sure where he / she is coming from.
Then it seemed that others began to judge his / her heart, where I (stressing "I") couldn't discern malice or foul play.
So then extraordinary seems to get cocky at times after that . . . probably some type of defense mechanism. God knows. Maybe he / she does think he / she is better than us. I don't know.
I probably would have given one of my speeches and wiped the dust off my feet and moved on. Unless, I felt the need to help others . . .
I think a good deal of times we (whatever end we are on) start off on the right footing, then someone offends us along the process, and then things can get perverted.
I feel this group is mature enough to know the difference between faith based faith and works based faith.
I also believe extraordinary has stated that "the elect" cannot fall away. Maybe I am wrong but thought I read that somewhere.
I personally am ok with someone getting me wrong if I sense they have the right heart about it. Some are smooth talkers but they couldn't care less about you (not that I ever done dat).
People may be right in their own eyes, but the Lord looks upon the heart - Proverbs