Frank's a wreck. He asked if I was ok, I told him I was, I had to be to be strong for him, because he was strong for me when my sister went through it/I got the BRCA news. He said, "That's ok, we can be wrecks together and strong together in front of the kids." The kids are handling it ok, so far. When I talked to her in the evening, she was thanking me for the cards the kids sent. I was like, "What cards?" They had taken the time to send her thinking of you "Hang in there, God is in control" email cards (the one with the kitten hanging from a branch.
We have some amazing kids.
We talked to her last night and she says she's fine, in shock but fine, but.... We're also worried about his dad. She had rotator cuff surgery last year, and he was so worried about her, he wasn't eating or sleeping. We thought he was losing his mind, he was acting and talking crazy. Turns out his sodium was low. They also discovered high blood pressure. He hadn't been to a doctor - ever. So we need to keep an eye on him, too, to make sure he takes care of himself, too.
In the good news column, my MRI I had last week came back normal. No signs of cancer for me. I have my next mamo in 6 months.
ShariFW 500 Member
"...hunt like a spider..." Cori - FW Con '07